Have you witnessed a scenario where religious dialogue opened up perspectives or resolved conflicts?

majority of the religious argument under Christianity usually leads to quoting the bible about something, and how that needs to be followed, but there are millions of things that clearly aren't followed by Christians like in the same verse that Christians against males wearing female garment and vice versa, the bible says to have a tassel on the corners of your garment. there are hundreds of examples of how ludicrous these arguments are, yet I have to go out of my way to research this stuff and Christians will make up stuff