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 @ISIDEWITHasked…5mos5MO

In what ways do you think encouraging men to share their feelings can benefit society as a whole?

 @9HXCRJ9Democrat from Ohio answered…4mos4MO

Allowing men to express their emotions openly can improve men's mental health as a whole. Men commit more suicides and homicides than women. It is imperative that they know they can get help with difficult thoughts and feelings.

 @9HXD296 from Indiana answered…4mos4MO

Men should be allowed to struggle. We as a society beat on men so much. Women treat men like garbage and break their hearts, ruining their lives for their own sick entertainment. Even other men will go out of their way to hurt you because it benefits them somehow.

 @9HZXH7FDemocrat from Pennsylvania disagreed…4mos4MO

Blaming women for the problems men may struggle with their emotional state and emotional intelligence is asininne. Regardless of gender, some people just hurt others in relationships because of who they are, not based on their gender, and to say just men get treated like garbage and get their hearts broken and ruin their lives is utterly preposterous. Women experince it too, all humans experince it and to just blame woman and aiding in perpetuating this notion that woman "use" men harms not just woman but also men too.

 @9HXCTMK from Georgia answered…4mos4MO

Women are always seen as weaker or more reactive because women are known to show more emotion while men are taught to push them down. If men can see that they can have emotions and not be seen as weak or reactive just as humans that would just be good for them as a whole so they can deal with issues not push them down.

 @9HXCSYK from Michigan answered…4mos4MO

I think its okay for a man to share his feelings as long as it is not downgrading him and his mental. Its okay to be sad for a little but its not okay to be weak.

 @ISIDEWITHasked…5mos5MO

How can we as a society work towards eliminating the stigma around men showing affection or expressing emotions?

 @9HXCM8K from Nebraska answered…4mos4MO

It has to start when they're young. All adults that deal with children regularly, must be educated about the harms of telling boys to "man up", "boys don't cry," etc.

 @9HXKYK3Independence from Texas disagreed…4mos4MO

people need to learn how to be strong and not take offence at everything but they need to learn to be empathetic

 @9HXDBFL from California answered…4mos4MO

The biggest opponent to men showing their "humanity" is other men. We have a culture of punching down on other men for walking a certain way, or painting their nails, or wearing jewelry or certain clothes. We push this expectation onto ourselves that we must all be the "invincible man" always willing and capable to do the impossible. Men often live and die by this code. But, in the process, we lose our sense of humanity. We must show the younger generation that it's okay to have, and express emotions, and to have a sense of individuality. We should encourage young men to do things that give them fulfillment instead of pushing old fashioned social norms onto them, or the cycle will continue

 @9HXCHVC from Georgia answered…4mos4MO

As a society i think we already doing better and ending the stigma around men showing emotions, i think if we stay the way we are, in the future there will be no stigma around it

 @9HYHG4P from Maryland agreed…4mos4MO

We are doing better, and in the future the stigma will certainly be gone or lessened. However, we can expedite that process by eliminating toxic masculinity—which harms both women and men in different ways—faster. There is no reason to simply wait with the progress we have already made, thus the answer should express that we should still work increasingly to make more progress on the issue.

 @9HXCG8Banswered…4mos4MO

I'm not sure how we as a society can work towards allowing men to feel more open with expressing their emotions because we've already tried our best to allow them to know that they're able to express their emotions in calm ways.

 @9HXK4P6 from Indiana agreed…4mos4MO

Yes, men do not open up because that is how society portayed them. If they do show emotions, they go out of the social norm and people will not like that.

 @ISIDEWITHasked…5mos5MO

Can recognizing the challenges men face with mental health help reduce the stigma around seeking therapy?

 @9HXD296 from Indiana answered…4mos4MO

Yes, breaking the stupid idea of needing to be tough could open up the ability for men to find help rather than making them think they are weak or people around them think they're being dramatic and implementing ideas about masculinity vs mental health at a young age and allowing men who are struggling to get help can lower the nearly 1 Million deaths by suicide annually in the U.S.

 @9HXCXYS from Florida answered…4mos4MO

Yes, seeking therapy shouldn’t be seen as a weak and non-masculine opportunity, it should be seen as strong as you are looking to help yourself and even maybe those around you.

 @ISIDEWITHasked…5mos5MO

Have you ever felt pressured to conform to traditional notions of masculinity; how did it make you feel?

 @9HXHKMS from Alabama answered…4mos4MO

No, God made men and women different for a reason.

 @9HXL6W9 from Idaho disagreed…4mos4MO

Gender isn't necessarily what's in your pants; it's often what's in your brains. Requiring people to fit into a binary notion of gender suppresses the many different possibilities of human gender identity and expression. We do not belong in boxes.

 @9HXHL72 from Idaho answered…4mos4MO

Yes. I often feel like I have to behave outwardly a certain way rather than be comfortable in my own skin, which is what masculinity should be. If people want to fit the traditional definition of masculinity, that is OK. But it shouldn't pressure and infringe on other peoples' expressional liberties.

 @9HXH7P7 from Florida answered…4mos4MO

I feel like men's mental health is disregarded heavily at times, especially with social norms causing many men to not talk about how they feel and just to be left hurt. I haven't felt the pressures of masculism myself though since I've come to the US.

 @9HXHJMNConstitution from Alabama answered…4mos4MO

 @ISIDEWITHasked…5mos5MO

Why do you think male suicides rates are higher and what can be done to change this?

 @9HM6KWXIndependent  from California answered…5mos5MO

I think male suicide rates are higher because many men think it’s the only way they can be properly heard and understood. I think this can be helped by women coming forward to show their support for mens mental health as well as women as separate and then equal subjects before merging them.

 @9HM6KTN from North Carolina answered…5mos5MO

The male moral is being suppressed by the confusion of gender complexities.
Masculinity is shamed and not encouraged.

 @dannita.00  from Mississippi commented…3wks3W

There is a difference between toxic masculinity and actual masculinity, its toxic masculinity that is frowned upon.

 @9HM6LK4 from Colorado answered…5mos5MO

I think they are higher as men don't feel validated or taken seriously when showing their feelings or sharing thoughts as they are seen to be tough and okay for everyone else.

 @ISIDEWITHasked…5mos5MO

How would you react if a male peer pursued a career in a traditionally female-dominated field, like nursing or teaching?

 @9HX8NRTWomen’s Equality from Tennessee answered…4mos4MO

I wouldn't react any kind of way to be completely honest as my only question would be why you chose this career path what inspired you, the same question I would ask a woman in a males dominate field.

 @9HX8Q4GWomen’s Equality from California answered…4mos4MO

I would support their career choice because there is no such thing as a male job or a female job all allowed to pursue whatever job they like.

 @9HYQ9QVLibertarian from Hawaii agreed…4mos4MO

Although I agree, I do think certain professions such as OBGYN should be more reserved for women as most women would feel uncomfortable having
a man as their OBGYN.

 @9HX8PVD from Texas answered…4mos4MO

It wouldnt matter, I think everyone should be able to work whatever job they choose if they can be qualified for it

 @9HXH2Y8Democrat from Indiana agreed…4mos4MO

As long as they have the qualifications for a job, a person should be able to work wherever they want to.

 @ISIDEWITHasked…5mos5MO

Why might it be necessary to have more discussions about body image pressures among men and boys?

 @9HXCKJManswered…4mos4MO

Because it is not fair to them for us to be taught about different body types when they are not being taught. It causes them to be significantly more insecure and could aid in lower mental health in males.

 @9HXCNZLanswered…4mos4MO

so that it can be normal to have these discussions in the future

 @9HZTQKHIndependent from California agreed…4mos4MO

Women’s figure has always been discussed and has always been a topic amongst our bringing up, with men however, it is not as normalized and we need to be able to acknowledge these feelings that they may share with us.

 @9HYR8B8 from North Carolina disagreed…4mos4MO

there are only 2 genders and a cant change your mind halfway through life and god made each person they way he wanted the m yo be

 @9HXCQGKWomen’s Equality from North Carolina answered…4mos4MO

Boys dont really have a body image issue. They take out their hate on women while expecting them to be skinny supermodels and the boy looks like a discord moderator.

 @9HYX82M from Pennsylvania disagreed…4mos4MO

All people, regardless of gender, can experience body image issues. By bringing up the conversation surrounding body image pressures on young boys, more people will be able to understand and give help to people who struggle with this issue.

 @ISIDEWITHasked…5mos5MO

How might societal expectations of 'being a man' impact mental health among your male friends?

 @9HGZGBS from Texas answered…5mos5MO

The men that want to be to be apart of LGBTQ would take it into offense which leads to things that make them question who they are as a person.

 @ISIDEWITHasked…5mos5MO

Have you witnessed situations where men's achievements or struggles were overshadowed by gender stereotypes?

 @9HXCBXB from West Virginia answered…4mos4MO

A woman did the same thing as a man but got more praise because this is a "man's world"

 @9HXBZGZRepublican from New York answered…4mos4MO

 @ISIDEWITHasked…5mos5MO

How can peer pressure among boys and men regarding masculinity be addressed to promote healthier relationships?

 @9HXDBVTanswered…4mos4MO

I feel like the peer pressure amongst boys is hard on their mindsets and they should have the ability to express their emotions without having to feel embarrassed. Anyone should. However, I feel like men are becoming less men because they aren't held to the standards of being a protector, provider, and leader anymore. They should have the ability to express their emotions but realize they are held accountable for them and the outcome of how they react. Plus people in general are over sensitive now in days.

 @9HXCRQ9 from Georgia answered…4mos4MO

Men should be taught at a young age to be masculine and not feminine. You were born a boy/man embrace it you shouldn’t be able to change that

 @ISIDEWITHasked…5mos5MO

In what situations have you seen men receive different treatment than women, for better or for worse?